THE GOOD ENOUGH MOTHER PODCAST



Birth, Trauma, and Maternity Reform


MOTHERHOOD, FORGOTTEN FEMINIST ISSUE, MATERNITY CONSUMER NETWORK, CHILDBIRTH EDUCATION, MATERNITY, BIRTH TRAUMA, PREGNANCY YOGA, VAGAL TONING, MATERNITY CARE, BIRTHING, MOTHERHOOD STUDIES


with advocate, educator and teacher Alecia Staines


*Please note that this podcast discusses obstetric violence, rape, and trauma. 

Alecia Staines is a passionate advocate for improving the maternity care system and has been working in this space of political advocacy for a decade. She is also a classroom teacher, childbirth educator, yoga teacher, founder of Maternal Consumer Network, and mother of 5.

In this conversation Alecia provides an overview of some of the key problems she sees within the maternity system, how she works both within the system and outside of it, in order to advocate for institutional change. Alecia is active in working to address structural inadequacies, as well in supporting individuals through education, trauma-informed practices, and more. We talk frankly about the challenges in initiating structural and social change, and I ask for Alecia’s insights as to how she’s navigated these challenges and sustained herself over the course of her career and volunteer work.

Alecia reflects on the bureaucratic obstacles that exist in the maternity system, the prevalence of birth and obstetric violence, the importance of respectful communication within healthcare, and the foundational role that birth plays in ‘setting us up’ for motherhood. We talk about the ripple effects of birth trauma on relationships and society and discuss healing, the power of story-telling, vagal toning, social power dynamics, paternalism, hierarchies, and the need for reform.

Alecia has a range of online and face to face offerings, including her Vagal Toning for Birth Trauma Course. All available at www.aleciastaines.com.au 

  • "Knowledge of the maternity care system is really lacking. When I started educating couples on it, I found their birth experiences improved. I always say - be aware, not alarmed. It's not that I love having to say that we have such a crappy maternity care system that turns out so many poor outcomes. Yet I would feel I would be doing them a disservice if I wasn't very transparent in where they were going. "

    — Alecia Staines in conversation with Sophie Brock, Ep #98 The Good Enough Mother

  • "I'll say to women, those four walls of the institution that you're birthing in, does not protect you from the things that are going on in society. Obstetric violence is really just a reflection of the violence and disrespect against women that we see in society, the people that work in these institutions are people in society, and it has bled into our birthing suite, and it continues to. So when we hear things like, you know, the high rates of rape and assault on women outside of birth, it's happening in birth, as well. "

    — Alecia Staines in conversation with Sophie Brock, Ep #98 The Good Enough Mother

  • "One of the things I developed last year with a lawyer and a perinatal psychologist was respectful maternity care training, we don't have any of that in this country either. So seeing that rolled out, and I'm not going to try and convince people it is some magic silver bullet, because this stuff takes time, we didn't just all of a sudden create the word, you know, like domestic violence, and then everyone goesgo, oh, okay, we'll fix it. It's this ongoing discussion and training and supporting victims… And it's the same with the maternity care system. This is ongoing."

    — Alecia Staines in conversation with Sophie Brock, Ep #98 The Good Enough Mother

  • "It's gonna feel uncomfortable to say no to care providers, because we've been conditioned that being a good girl is being polite and saying yes, and just doing as we're told. I encourage women to have those uncomfortable conversations during that antenatal period, so towards the end of pregnancy, they're quite strong in their voice."

    — Alecia Staines in conversation with Sophie Brock, Ep #98 The Good Enough Mother

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Alecia

Alecia is a classroom teacher, childbirth educator, yoga teacher, founder of Maternity Consumer Network and mother-of-5. She has been in political advocacy for a decade as she is very passionate about ensuring all women have a positive start to mothering through respectful and woman centred maternity care. She lives on the Sunshine Coast with her children and dog Bingo. She loves the outdoors and going to the beach.

Staines

No one, as far as our political MPs go, thinks that this is a national emergency when I absolutely think it is

you can imagine if we converted this to a financial figure, the impact on our economy?

“I am so passionate about birth and trying to get women the best experience possible because I know that's a foundation of motherhood.”

— Alecia Staines in conversation with Sophie Brock, Ep #98 The Good Enough Mother

Why is maternity not valued?

I'm trying to get a federal government Friends of Maternity Care group going because we seem to get drowned out with all the other women's health issues. We're talking about a physiological process, not a health issue. So I think really think maternity does need its own standalone thing, under women's health, so we can better advocate."

— Alecia Staines in conversation with Sophie Brock, Ep #98 The Good Enough Mother

Resources


THE LANCET PAPER DISCUSSING:

‘too much, too soon’ and ‘too little, too late’

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obstetric violence

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medical colonialism and obstetric violence in Canada

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OTHER PAPERS DISCUSSING:

PTSD and the absence of respectful maternity care

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Australian women’s experiences of obstetric violence

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Women’s descriptions of childbirth trauma relating to care provider actions and interactions

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TRAINING

Better Births With Consent—Australia's first consent training for maternity health professionals

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PODCAST

Birth, the forgotten feminist issue

Shares research and reflections from fellow lobbyists, birthing women, researchers and health professionals. The intention of this podcast is to change the culture around birth and maternal healthcare and stir change among women and feminists alike to improve birth for women.

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